Mia McConnell
March 17, March 24, March 31, April 14 @ 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm
Boys And Girls Club - Reading Is Freedom
Renee Infelise
Renee@bgcp.org
I have really enjoyed my experience tutoring Alexis through
Reading Is Freedom. I think we have both become much more comfortable around
each other, which definitely makes it a better experience for both of us. Every
time I come to Taft he is ready to go and cheerfully welcomes me. I especially
like that he always says "Hi Mia!" instead of just "Hi",
because it lets me know that he remembers who I am among the many teachers and
peers he encounters. But, working on his reading skills wasn't a complete
breeze. Mastering the art of tutoring is much more difficult than one would
think. It is no doubt important to tell the student when they make mistakes and
more importantly inform them of how to improve upon their mistakes, but it is
also hard to tell them how to improve without dampening their self-confidence
or motivation to read. Especially because of Alexis's low self-esteem, I have
struggled with how and how often to tell him how to improve his reading skills.
I have learned that interrupting him every time he messes up a word to tell him
how to say it is not the right approach. This would only lead to him getting
frustrated with reading and messing up on the same word on the next page or in
another book. Instead, I choose to focus on certain skills or certain words
each tutoring session, like clearly informing him that we are working on how to
say Mr. vs. Mrs. or how to enunciate the ends of words. I noticed that this
approach led to much greater improvement and more importantly it often created
lasting effects not just a nod and flip to the next page. I know that Alexis
undoubtedly needs more help to raise his reading skills to where they should be
and that the weeks we spent together might not make dramatic changes, but I do
believe that I not only made some impact on his reading skills but also I think
I helped establish a stable relationship in his life for half of the school
year that he most likely doesn't have with many other people. Reading books to
kids for an hour a week might not be life changing, but the little boost of
skills and confidence it can give them is definitely worth something.